During the training, particular attention was given to questions that may seem like ordinary expressions of curiosity but are inappropriate in a medical setting. If certain information is not necessary for providing medical care, it is best not to directly ask a veteran about their combat experiences, losses, the circumstances of their injuries, or their emotional reactions to them.
Similarly, it is best to avoid questions about how the person views the war, when it will end, or what exactly happened to them on the front lines. Such questions can unnecessarily re-traumatize the patient and exacerbate psychological distress.
It’s also important to avoid demonstrating “complete understanding” of another person’s experience. If a healthcare professional hasn’t gone through similar events, phrases like “I know what you’ve been through” can come across as inappropriate. Instead, it is more appropriate to acknowledge the difficulty of what they have experienced: “It’s hard for me to imagine what you’ve had to go through.”
This approach does not diminish the person’s experience; on the contrary, it allows them to decide for themselves what they are ready to share and when.
Another important aspect is how you express sympathy. Overly emotional phrases like “I feel so sorry for you” can make the patient feel pitied or helpless. In professional communication, it is more effective to demonstrate respect for the person’s experience, resilience, and ability to make decisions about their own health.
This is especially important in cases where a veteran may feel a loss of control over their own life or become dependent on others due to their health condition or the effects of an injury.
At the same time, a medical consultation does not always proceed smoothly. The patient may be tired, irritated, tense, or reacting emotionally to the situation.
In such cases, the healthcare provider’s task is not to engage in conflict, but to help steer the conversation back toward resolving the specific issue at hand.
During the training sessions, participants practiced the following approaches, among others: “I’m listening to you carefully” and “Let’s work together to find the best way to resolve this situation.”
Such phrases do not dismiss the patient’s emotions but help steer the conversation in a constructive direction.
Special attention was given during the training to the partnership model of interaction. The healthcare provider has professional knowledge and experience, while the patient knows their own well-being, needs, and limits. Effective treatment occurs when these forms of knowledge complement one another. Therefore, it is important not only to tell the patient what to do and when, but also to explain the reasoning behind your actions, give them the opportunity to ask questions, and take their opinion into account.
In this context, clear communication is not merely an additional skill but an integral part of the quality of medical care.
As the ZDOROVI trainers noted, at each of the nine healthcare facilities, participants asked questions about how to communicate appropriately with veterans, what to pay special attention to, and which phrases are best avoided. Healthcare workers also shared their own real-life experiences — describing situations in which they had already interacted with veterans in their professional practice — and, together with the trainers, sought the most appropriate ways to respond.
This format made it possible to move from general recommendations to specific work situations. After all, the need for such knowledge among medical teams is not abstract — it is already part of their daily practice. It was precisely the discussion of real-life experiences that helped participants see how even a familiar phrase, question, or manner of address can influence a patient’s trust and their willingness to continue engaging with the healthcare system.
Communicating with veterans today is about treating them professionally, humanely, and with respect, taking into account their experiences and needs. It is precisely these practices that help healthcare facilities in the Sumy region become better prepared to work with veterans and other population groups who require a sensitive and tailored approach.
The project “Strengthening the Capacity of Healthcare Workers in the Sumy Region to Support Recovery and Reintegration of the Population” is being implemented by the ZDOROVI Charitable Foundation as part of the “Capable and Resistant: Sumy” project, implemented by East Europe Foundation (EEF).